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First and foremost, be aware that
panic can't hurt you. It isn't dangerous, and it doesn't mean you're
crazy, no matter how it feels! In fact, panic attacks make biological sense —
even though they may feel completely
senseless.
You might think
of a panic attack as your body's reaction to a minor
threat as though it's a major
emergency — the result of an exquisitely sensitive nervous system, possibly
combined with early life experiences that may have taught you to overestimate
the likelihood of danger in different situations.
During a panic
attack, your body reacts as though you're in danger, releasing adrenaline and
noradrenaline to prepare you to fight an unknown enemy — or to run for your
life. This in turn produces a host of alarming sensations — a pounding heart,
an urge to flee, difficulty thinking straight and feelings of impending doom.
The problem, of
course, is that during a panic attack, the body's alarm system kicks in when
it's not needed — not when you're facing an attacker, or a natural disaster,
but when you're standing in a check-out line, or sitting quietly in a movie
theater.
And
though you may feel as though you will, you won't
faint; you won't have a heart attack;
you won't do something crazy or out of
control. And you won't die. Reminding
yourself of those facts can reduce the frightening sensations of panic.
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Take a
"time out" and slow down. Slow your rate of breathing, slow your
racing thoughts, slow your entire body, head to toe. Then slowly
resume your previous activities.
When
you panic, your body, your mind, your emotions — literally everything
— speeds up. And you feel out of control. Deliberately reversing
the process, starting with your head and moving downward from there, not only
slows you down — the exact opposite of panic — it puts you back in charge.
3
Picture
a person you trust, someone who believes in you, supports you and cares
about your well-being. Now imagine that person is with you, offering
encouragement.
Panic
attacks often reflect feelings of being alone, bereft and fearful of your
ability to cope on your own. Remembering,
and experiencing, the presence of another can relieve those feelings of
abandonment. So let someone you trust "take you by the hand" — and
let your panic slip away.
4
If there are places available,
take a stroll. If there are people
available, talk with one of them. Better yet, do both!
Walking
can help you "burn off" some of the excess adrenaline that's released
when you become anxious. Talking with others can lift your spirits, refocus your
energies positively and help you feel connected to the human race in a
comforting, encouraging fashion. Try it — it really works!
5
Sit down and take several
slow, deep breaths. Pretend your stomach is a huge balloon and inflate it to
enormous dimensions. Take at least four seconds to inhale, through your nose,
and at least four more to exhale, through pursed lips, as though you're
whistling. Continue this for several minutes, trying, as you do so, to
consciously relax your muscles.
Anxiety leads
invariably to rapid, shallow breathing even
when you're not aware of it. And that leads directly to many of the symptoms
of anxiety — dizziness, confusion, numbness or tingling in your hands and
feet, trembling and muscle aches, even altered perceptions of reality at times.
The
fastest, most foolproof strategy to eliminate the physical symptoms of intense anxiety is to alter your breathing —
to slow it down and deepen it. In fact, use the method several times a day to
keep anxiety low and prevent attacks arising in the first place!
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Occupy
your mind with an absorbing task: listen to an absorbing radio program,
concentrate all your attention on a distracting activity or task, call a friend.
Or simply focus on the present, on concrete objects around you, making a game of
noticing details of every object you see.
During a panic
attack, your mind is consumed with catastrophic thoughts about what's happening
to your body, or about imagined disasters to come. These catastrophic thoughts
provide the fuel for further anxiety.
To "defuel" anxiety, you need to interrupt the catastrophic thoughts.
Distracting yourself by thinking about something else is one way to do that.
Listen
to music, phone a friend, invent a delicious daydream, recall a happy time in
your life in great detail anything to focus your mind on what's happening in the
environment rather than on your body; on what's happening in the present, rather
than the future; on something other than disaster. You'll interrupt the
spiraling of anxiety and can eliminate, sometimes even prevent,
the symptoms of full-blown panic.
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Picture
a relaxing scene using all your senses. Now
put yourself into the scene. Involving yourself in a relaxing image calms
your body, relaxes your mind — and helps put an end to the symptoms of panic.
Making the scene as vivid as possible, by using all five senses and by putting
yourself into it, simply adds power to this panic-busting strategy.
8
Take a
giant yawn and stretch your body, head to toe.
A
yawn and stretch is another way to interrupt your rapid breathing and escalating
symptoms. The yawn literally forces air into the lower 25% of your lungs, and
the stretch releases the tension in your muscles. After a good yawn and stretch,
you can "start fresh."
9
Bring to
mind the image of a person you admire and imagine yourself to actually be
that person. Think as they might think, act as they might act, even feel
as they might feel.
This
strategy will lighten your spirits, inspire feelings of strength and comfort,
and help you focus on something more adaptive than your fears. It's a powerful
combination, far more positive than panic.
10
If unfamiliar situations increase your anxiety
level, as they do for many panic sufferers, try to prepare
for new situations in advance: take a drive to an office building the day before
a scheduled appointment; try out your presentation on your family before
you give it in public; rehearse "in your head" how you'll handle an
uncomfortable social situation before
you actually encounter it. You'll have an easier time of it, and you'll be far
less likely to experience panic.
Practicing
difficult situations in advance is known to reduce anxiety. In fact, formal
treatment for panic attacks often involves exposing yourself gradually and repeatedly
to selected situations, or to specific sensations of panic. While it's beyond
the scope of this flyer to describe that form of treatment in detail, a
counselor trained to treat anxiety, or a soundly based self-help book such as Master
Your Panic and Take Back Your Life, referenced below, can guide you through
the process.
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Recall a
time you handled a similar situation well, or try to bring to mind a past
success and the good feelings you experienced at that time.
Let
your own confidence emerge and help
you put panic right back where it belongs — out
of your life.
12
Get mad.
Vow not to let panic win this time. You
deserve better. A strong competing emotion can often drive out panic; you
simply don't have "room," or energy, for both. In fact, there's some
evidence that suppressing anger and
other strong emotions, like grief, can evoke
panic; becoming more aware of feelings,
by contrast, can send it packing.
So
talk with a counselor, confide in a friend or family member, perhaps start a
journal. Find a private place to express your reactions to your new life, and
watch panic depart.
13
Count
backward from 20 and with every number, picture a different image of someone
you love, something that pleases you, something that calms you. These might be
images you recall from the past, or those you only imagine.
This
strategy, too, not only refocuses your attention, it boosts upbeat, secure
feelings — a wonderful antidote to panic.
14
Remind yourself that a
panic attack always subsides. Always. No one can sustain intense levels of
panic indefinitely. Panic attacks are anguishing to experience, but they will
subside, even without any specific action on your part. But seeking assistance,
reading more about panic and using these strategies can help you to overcome
your attacks more rapidly and with far less misery. And that's what this flyer,
the book on which it's based, and the people who've made it available all hope
for you.
So
pick a strategy, try it out today and send your panic packing!