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Strengthening
Your Stepfamily Elizabeth Einstein, M.A., MFT, |
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One of three
Americans is now a stepparent, a stepchild, a stepsibling, or some other
member of a stepfamily. Stepfamilies are different. The "old
rules" that govern traditional families don't necessarily apply,
and each stepfamily must create its own "new rules" that will
work for a unique blended family. Einstein and Albert bring to this
manual decades of experience as stepfamily counselors and consultants,
acclaimed writers, and stepparents themselves. The result is clear,
down-to-earth, expert help for couple relationships and parenting in the
blended family. Among the many challenges dealt with in this
comprehensive guidebook: overcoming unrealistic expectations, debunking
myths, Softcover
2005, US $17.95 from the South Dakota Rapid City Journal, “Stepping up for stepfamilies” Put your marriage first. It’s the foundation of your stepfamily. Support your children’s need to have a relationship with their other biological parent. Noncustodial parents should remain a part of your children’s lives. Never badmouth your former partner to your children. Remember that relationships between stepparents and stepchildren take time to blossom. Be flexible and creative concerning celebrations and holidays. Discuss and clarify all money issues early — preferably before remarriage. Agree on how to run the household and establish a “united front.” Build strong, clear communication with respect and civility. Face all feelings
fearlessly, talk about them and you’ll grow closer. |
