Foreword

Introduction

Preface: A Piece of My Story

Chapter 1: Grieving Your Lost Love  

Chapter 2: Going Inside

Chapter 3: Intimacy & Loss

Chapter 4: Fake It 'Till You Make It: Uses & Abuses of Denial

Chapter 5: Harboring Ill Feelings: Anger Wounds the Carrier

Chapter 6: Moving Beyond Anger 

Chapter 7: Last Ditch Search for a Bargaining Chip

Chapter 8: The Low Point is the Turning Point

Chapter 9: Understanding, Accepting & Forgiving

Chapter 10: Purging the Ghosts

Chapter 11: The Magic of Optimism: Ten Steps to Making It Work

Chapter 12: Roadmap for Healing

Chapter 13: Sources of Strength

Chapter 14: Taking Action

Chapter 15: The Fifty Ways

Epilogue: An Update on My Life 

Notes

Bibliography